Wishing Tree Holds Deployment Hopes and Wishes

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A young girl places her paper love note on an art board wishing tree at a reunion workshop in Vicenza, Italy. Photo by Karen Pavlicin-Fragnito.

When a loved one is deployed, we’re full of wishes: that he’ll be safe, that she’ll be home soon, that the children will adjust to the separation. In The Wishing Tree, a book by Mary Redman, illustrated by Christina Rodriguez, a military child named Amanda is inspired by yellow ribbons on a neighborhood tree to create a reminder of her deployed father. Her “wishing tree” became a place to collect wishes, hopes, and prayers for him.

Amanda used an artificial tree from a craft store. She wrote her hopes, like “I hope your flight is safe,” and prayers, “Please, protect my daddy from harm,” on yellow ribbons and tied them to her tree.

It’s easy to make a wishing tree like Amanda’s for your own home, classroom, family assistance center, church, or business. It can be like Amanda’s or created another way. Use some of these ideas or try your own.

Miniature Wishing Tree

  • Start with a small tree or plant (artificial or real) or a tree branch. If necessary, place it in a flower pot or jar, supported by florist foam.
  • Write your wishes on lengths of ribbon with a fabric pen and tie them to the branches.

Bulletin Board Wishing Tree

  • From a sheet of construction paper or fabric, cut out the shape of a bare tree with plenty of long branches. Attach it to a bulletin board or poster board on the wall.
  • Cut out leaves or other shapes from ribbon, paper, flannel, or other fabric. Have family members, students, or other participants write wishes, hopes, and prayers on the wishing leaves and attach them to the tree.

Containers for Wishes

  • Box: Select a box with a lid. Cut an opening in the box top or use a lid that lifts off. Decorate the box with photos of a person you are gathering wishes for. Write wishes on small pieces of paper or paper leaves and put into the box.
  • Jar: Use a large clear container, like a pickle or candy jar, and colored pieces of paper or ribbon to write your wishes. Decorate the jar, or let the colorful wishes inside show through. Your wishing jar will grow more beautiful with each prayer or wish added.

Wishing Tree Placemats

  • Draw a picture of a tree on a piece of paper the size you want your placemat to be. Include leaves on the tree, and photos of your family around the tree, if you like.
  • Laminate the paper.
  • Use markers or crayons to write wishes on the leaves. Add new wishes at each meal.

Holiday Wishing Trees

  • Write wishes on ribbons, paper ornaments, or other craft items. Decorate your family treat the holidays with your wishes and hopes for others.
  • Create a giving tree, decorating with wishes from others in need. Encourage everyone to select a wish from the tree and make it come true!

Create Your Own Wishing Tree Idea:

Share your wishing tree pictures with Military Family Life on Facebook, Instagram, or TwitterUse the hashtag #wishingtreebook

Feature photo: A young girl places her paper love note on an art board wishing tree at a reunion workshop in Vicenza, Italy. Photo by Karen Pavlicin-Fragnito.

Packages of 31 pre-cut yellow wish ribbons are available from MilitaryFamilyBooks.com.

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